Cosmo's Guide to Online Dating
By Liesa Goins
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Creating the Perfect Profile
For maximum impact, follow this too-tempting-to-resist template.
The best strategy is knowing what not to say. "Women are often too
critical of their appearance; this is the time to crow about your best
attributes," says Susan Rabin, author of Cyberflirt. Jeanette, 25, learned
this the hard way. "The first profile I posted mentioned that I wanted to
drop a few pounds," she says. "Once I changed it to say I had an hourglass
figure, I got three times as many responses." Also, disclose personal
issues with discretion. "Skip talk about exes and physical, emotional and
financial challenges," says Trish McDermott, vice president of romance for
Match.com. You should get to know him before spelling out any baggage or
shortcomings. Don't overwrite -- keep it between 50 and 100 words -- to
maintain some mystery and privacy (remember, anyone can read your
profile).
Screen Name or Headline
Use this opportunity to intrigue. You'll stand out more with a saucy
moniker like Tons o' Fun instead of something neutral like Looking for
Love.
Photo
You should include a pic.
Match.com reports that users who post a
flattering snap of themselves get eight times more responses.
Opening Line
Begin with a brief physical description like "Fit, all-American blonde"
or "Ultrafeminine, exotic-looking brunette." It's key to paint a vivid
picture of the whole you. It can conjure up an image that will hook guys
quickly.
Your Unique Attributes
This reveals something specific about your personality that helps him
understand you.
A Little More Info
It's important to reveal character traits but not too much personal
information. This gives the reader a clear idea of your interests without
dumping a laundry list on him.
Make Your Demands
Being up-front about what you want in a man will weed out some
inappropriate applicants. Plus, mentioning movies, music and other hobbies
gives guys a clear idea of what you may have in common.
What It's Like to Date You
An example of how you spend your weekends shows the action-oriented male
 mind
how he fits your list. Plus, since men love to teach you what they know,
listing something you hope to learn or improve on will appeal to his
alpha-male side.
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